Missional mentors

Our typical image of retirees may not include leadership of mission trips. But I have many friends who, as Third Agers, are making a difference for those less fortunate. One group is in South America as I write this, another is preparing to leave for Haiti to build houses in another week, still others will be in Dyersburg and Nashville, TN, for disaster flood relief. A couple I've known for years, both retired from public school teaching, sold their home, bought an RV, and spend much of their time traveling -- volunteering on one mission trip after another.

There's a growing number of folks aged 65 and over. Currently over 12% of the US population is in this category, and the percentage is rising. By mid-century, it's estimated that there will be more people over 65 than under 14 in this country! People are not only living longer, but they also are staying active longer, remaining healthy longer. And they have some decisions to make. Some will continue working in their chosen careers. Others will find new or part-time vocations. Some will go back to school. And some will express their commitment to God and neighbor through volunteerism of various kinds. All of these pursuits offer promise of making genuine contributions to society through the latter years of life.

The other day, though, I was reminded of an even more personal opportunity. A young twenty-something fellow told me of a recent conversation he had with his 86-year-old grandfather. For some time, the man had expressed feelings of being used up, no longer worthwhile, "ready to go." My young friend began to make it a point to call his grandfather every week and ask him for advice and counsel. After only a few of these conversations, the older man felt re-charged and is getting even more engaged in the community again. The older ones among us have a wealth of wisdom and insight. But the younger folks need to be open to that information and understanding.

Missional mentors are those disciples who have committed to finishing strong in the Christian life, giving themselves in service to God and neighbor. In particular, they are devoted to sharing with rising generations the difference Christ has made in their lives.